Tuesday, January 28, 2020

checkmate

I forgive you
Utterly and completely
For having zero regard
For how I feel
It's as if I don't exist
Unless you need me
A pawn in your
Endless games
And I'm tired now
I won't put up a fight
So do whatever you want
See if I care

Monday, January 27, 2020

Words

Take my half-formed sentences and complete them
And when the days get worse, you will only get words
Mix and match them until they make sense
Everything does, even the letters you get
When my brain is too weak to string together those odd lines and curves
To make words that make sentences that make paragraphs that make sense
Even though nothing makes sense in my head anymore
Lay it all out and organise it and present it to the world
So that they don't know that I'm crashing
That I'm falling
Only you have permission to see me at my weakest
So take my hand under the table where no one can see
Squeeze it to keep me awake, alert
And take my letters, my words
And make sentences out of them
Be my voice when I struggle to find my own

Sunday, January 26, 2020

sad singles

It has started early this year
Promos for romantic dinners for two
The prices of flowers jacked up
Throw in a box of chocolates for a small discount
Plan your dates in advance
Be blinded by all the red
So much of it
Roses and hearts and wine and love
It's all so red
Like blood
And I absorb it all
Watch as people embrace this commercialism
Of... What? Something sacred?
I scoff at the idea
Laugh at this stupid celebration of love
How embarrassing it must be to partake in this nonsense
I pretend that none of this bothers me
I laugh and insult
And hope it hides just how lonely I am
Behind this crumbling facade

something fishy

Your body against mine that night
So close, skin against skin
I could have reached around
And wrapped you in an embrace
That transfers some of your pain
Into my empty heart

Instead I stood there
Hoping my presence was sufficient
To drive away your demons
Just for that night

And I wish I felt warmth in our closeness
That I felt your heart beat, lungs expand and contract
I wish I felt how alive you and I were in that moment
Instead your body
It felt like raw fish
And it took everything in me to not recoil in disgust 

sweet

You wrapped your lies in sweet sugar paper
Fed them to me one by one
Stupid as I was in your arms
I swallowed them without any hesitation

Make it stop

We didn't have much as kids
An old TV we rarely sat in front of
No parties with bouncy castles and magicians
Home-cooked meals, the rare Happy Meal
But we had an old suitcase full of toys
Among the dolls and cars and building blocks
Were two bright red View-Masters
We would slip in the reels and watch as one image was switched for another
Mickey Mouse, Daisy Duck, characters we loved
We'd press on the orange clank and snap! a new image was before us
But we were kids and didn't treasure these
And so we no longer have any of them
Not that we need them
Because my mind has now turned itself into
A viewfinder of sorts
But it gives me no joy, it's not a toy
It's a test of patience and strength
Before I give in, surrender

Clear skin, blade, blood
snap!
Clear skin, blade, blood
snap!
Clear skin, blade, blood
snap!

Some days

sometimes you wake up and everything feels like death
everything hurts as your peel yourself off the bed
like velcro being pulled apart
you can almost hear bones cracking, muscles tearing
and you know then, you just do

the same way you know when its an unexpectedly cold morning
your skin covered in goosebumps
and you know it's going to be a lazy day, wrapped in a blanket
sipping hot tea, looking at the changing skies
you know all this before your feet hit the cold floor beneath
but there is no excitement or hope or joy on days like this
it's almost like
while you were asleep
the world tilted just a bit to the left
and suddenly the fortune you had enjoyed so far
with good days and good feelings
disappeared into the universe
taking away happiness, optimism, love
with it

so you sit there, on your bed
a tremor in your hands
trying to slow your breathing
your head feels like it weighs a tonne
your shoulders curved in
and you know that this is all your body can give you today

Thursday, January 23, 2020

for the best

I liked what we had

In this city that we made our own
With it's sky high buildings
Blinding lights and crowded streets
And in this borrowed city
On borrowed time
We found something worth
Breathing for

Until the magic started to wane
And we saw the muck and grime
That this city was made of
And the ticking of the clock
Got louder and louder
And we went our separate ways
Promising each other a tomorrow
But never returning

May be it was for the best
That short time we had together
Maybe it was for the best
That we never got to see each other's
True colours

Tuesday, January 21, 2020

Home

We sat there
Our sides pressed againt
Each others
Finding space for ourselves
In a crowded room
And as we settled in
Next to each other
I felt safe
And comforted
I felt like life could end now
And I'd be content

Is this what they mean
When they talk about people
Feeling like home?

Sunday, January 19, 2020

look away

Is it visible
My sadness
Do you see it
But choose to look away
Instead
Do you pretend to not notice
Just so we need not confront it

Are we going to tiptoe around each other
Ignoring this loneliness that
Draws us to one another?

Nighttime

Two nights ago
I woke up at 1.30am and stayed awake
For an hour or so

Last night
I woke up at 4am
And stayed awake for an hour or so

There's something about that time of the night
When you drift in and out of sleep
That feels good and safe and right

My mind slows down so I need not think
My body settles against the mattress and pillows
And the world around me slowly fades out of existence

Nothing else matters in those moments
There is no one else
Just me

Belonging

And so I sit there
At a table with my favourite people
People I love with all I've got
And suddenly I'm no longer part of them
I can't reach them
Their voices muffled, faces blurry

So I sit there in silence
Looking into this world that
I belonged to just five minutes ago

And just as I decide to leave
One of them reaches out
Pulls me back into
Whatever conversation
I'd slipped out of

So I stay
Still not quite there
But I stay

Saturday, January 18, 2020

physical

There's something about sex
That I find revolting
There's something about intimacy
That I'm afraid of
So when I flinch at your touch
When I move my hand away
It's all on me
And not you




clean cut

I can't give you credit for much
But I'm glad you never turned back
Never asked for a second chance
You left and never returned

Unlike the others
Who hoped for change, forgiveness
Kept coming back
As if I'd ever change my mind
They kept coming back
Pushing me closer towards the edge
Little by little

And all it would have taken was
A single word, glance from you
To push me over

So thank you
For making this a clean cut

Friday, January 17, 2020

Maybe it wouldn't be so bad
If I were to pack up and leave
Find another life for myself
In a place I can disappear into

Seconds

I hated you for having never cared about me
Because it was easier to think that you didn't
Isn't that why people leave?
But what about those seconds we shared
Every time you walked into the room
And looked at me and only me
For a few seconds
Before joining the others?

Safety net

I built a safety net for myself
A few years ago
I built it over the course
Of a few months
Adding parts and putting it together
Making sure it will catch me
When I fall

And once that final nail
Had been screwed in
And everything was in place
I knew that now I could
Go on with life
Without worrying about crashing
Because I'd taken precautions
I was going to be okay
No matter what

And today, I looked back
To make sure that it was still there
But people had removed parts
Over the years
Dismantled my safety net
And in its place
All I could find was
A gaping hole
That would suck me in
Swallow me whole

And now I have nothing left
And I've start falling

Thursday, January 16, 2020

just for today

Today
I will let myself indulge
In this fantasy
That you and I are together
And I am loved so deeply
By you
Because today
I'm just so tired
And so lonely
And sad
That if I don't do this
Forget for a minute that your heart
Belongs to another
And pretend
That your eyes light up for me
And not them
If I don't indulge in this idiotic fantasy
Just for today
I may not be able to
Hold it together anymore

Gone

I forgot you were human
That you had feelings
Needs and desires
I forgot that you felt pain
Hurt just like the rest of us
In my selfishness
I thought you would wait
Exactly where I left you
When I tire of life
And need some familiarity
You were my plan B
Someone I could discard when
It pleased me
And pick up when needed
But now I look back and realise that
You were never going to wait
You'd left even before
I took my first step away from you

Wednesday, January 15, 2020

what about you?

How are you
You asked me
And I replied
I'm okay

But here's the truth
That you cannot know

I feel like I'm drowning
My lungs screaming for air
I feel like a thousand needles
Are pricking me from inside and out
I feel like I'm at a dead end
With nowhere else to go
I feel like I'm done
Pretending life should go on

But of course I will never tell you
Any of these truths
When you ask me how I am
I will always pretend I'm okay


Tuesday, January 14, 2020

love

Kill it before it can turn into anything else
From an attraction that keeps you entertained when bored
Soon becoming something that demands so much more than
You can ever give

Kill it before it grows within you
Tendrils reaching the darkest corners of your mind
Sucking out what little energy you have
Leaving you nothing but a shell of what you used to be

Kill it before it turns into love
Because that's when you know
You've lost

Mundane

Sometimes
When I'm doing something mundane
Like chopping up some garlic
Or crossing the road
Going past a river
On my way to work
I wonder how good it would feel
To be pulled out of existence.


And I wonder if you'd
Miss me

Monday, January 13, 2020

Loss

And so this is what we are left with
Heartbreak and pain
Memories that feel like fire
Making skin melt
Feelings that feel like blades
Slicing into flesh
This is all we have
Now that we've loved and loved
And lost it all

Thursday, January 9, 2020

Embers

It's in my bones
Burning like embers
Not as loud as a fire
But still as hot
It makes my insides melt
And skin burn
But there's nothing I can
Douse this with

This unhappiness within me
And everything else that
Tags along with it
Refuses to budge
I feel the strings that hold me together
Come undone
Snapping
One by one

Saturday, January 4, 2020

thrill

Sometimes I wonder
If my heart fluttered
When I was with you
Because you awakened
Parts of me
I was previously unaware of
Or because
The thrill of being with you
Made my heart beat
Faster
Knowing this thing between us
Was forbidden
Knowing it was a secret, hidden
When you asked me if anyone knew
There was a certain glint in your eyes
The way your lips curled into a smile
Made me wonder about this need for secrecy
And your insistence on remaining mysterious
Is in itself was a warning

But it was a warning
I chose to ignore
Over and over again




Always on my mind

I haven't asked about you in a while
Progress, I'd say
But last month, when it was my turn to share
A sad story
I considered lying
Making something up just to get it over with
But then...
I thought about you
And finally told people the truth

It took me years
To admit out loud
How I fell for you
How you broke my heart

Silly

You silly boy
You think we don't notice
How hard you try
To get her attention
Your eyes light up
When she walks into the room
You forget the rest of us
When she's around
You do your best
To impress her
But then she leaves
Not even turning around
To look at you
And you sit there
Crushed
Deflated
We all notice this
So we always stay back
To pick up the pieces
She crumbles you into
 
And as you sit there
Noticing only her
I sit here
Noticing only you