Saturday, December 31, 2022

silly

And so I go back in time
Close to a decade ago
When things were much simpler
And I liked you
And you were mine
For the briefest time

And those same silly feelings
A nuisance, really; an inconvenience
I hear them at the door
Knocking and knocking
Telling me to indulge in this frivolous activity
Just one more time

Monday, December 26, 2022

When you hold me in your arms, pull me a little closer
There's a tenderness that takes me by surprise
For a moment, which feels much longer than it is,
We are something else entirely.

Saturday, December 24, 2022

We never stood a chance

There's a finality to this

Your arm draped across my belly

The morning sun peeking through the curtains

Something tells me we will never find ourselves like this

Again

But then, we knew that didn't we?

We always knew this wouldn't last

So easily, casually naked around each other

So open with our bodies

But guarded with everything else

Tuesday, September 27, 2022

ridiculous

you will laugh now
scoff at the idea
but one of these days
you will look at a boy
-well, a man-
and realise that somewhere down the line
you will love this boy
with all you've got
and just as that thought
enters your mind
he will look different to you
something about those eyes
or lips
you'll think:
"those are mine
to love and kiss"

Thursday, September 15, 2022

aroma/odour

We joke about a "cigar spirit", some long-dead relative
Hanging around the property, smoking his cigars, listening in on conversation
No one in the house smokes, and yet sometimes,
The waft of rich tobacco fills our nostrils

When Johnny Meowing, the first cat who claimed us when I was old enough
To take care of pets, old enough to understand the grief that comes with their passing,
Was sick, his kidneys failing, we lit incense sticks to keep the flies away
And even now, years later, the smell of citronella reminds me of him

Sepalika flowers are soft to touch, such a contrast to their leaves,
That one kind of jasmine, queen of the night, so small
Athamma, to me, is the fragrance of these flowers
Her coffin was filled with them, as was her wish

Calvin never made it to his fifth birthday, and in the months before his death,
Cleaning up vomit became almost a daily occurrence - we didn't mind it
Disinfectant wipes, although expensive, made things easier
Now, when I pull one out of a packet, I can almost hear his chatty meows

Whenever I think of you - rarely, now - it is the sickly-sweet smell of caramel that comes to mind
It always lingered on you, mixing with the smell of cigarettes and freshly-ironed clothes
Sometimes, as I unwrap a Delta toffee and pop it into my mouth,
A misplaced memory finds its way to my heart like a dart

Sunday, August 7, 2022

Scenes from our lives

How will an artist paint us if he chose to?

Glasses on the table, varying levels of being full
Or empty
A bottle of arrack, coke, water, ice
Plates of rice, devilled meat

He may paint us with smiles on our faces, mid-conversation
He may capture hands being held under the table
A secret game of footsie, someone's looking at their phone
One rests their head on a friend's shoulder

An unconscious game of musical chairs
As some leave and others join
And people keep moving around the room
Catching up with friends they haven't seen in a while

If an artist painted us
I wonder what he would name it
What would he see being shared among us
That we ourselves are so unaware of?

And if someday we see it hanging on a wall
In a house or gallery
Would we recognise ourselves, our happiness
Would we look back at this day with fondness?

Word of the day: ukiyo-e
a genre style of painting and printmaking developed in Japan from the 17th to the 19th centuries and marked by the depiction of the leisure activities of ordinary people.



Saturday, July 30, 2022

crumbs

In some cultures, the women eat
Only after the men have had their fill
What's left are the smallest pieces of meat
Curry leaves and rampe in gravy
The rice cooked by the women cold and hard by then
But when you are used to only having what is left over
You learn to accept without protest whatever is sent your way
No matter how abysmal
Even when your plate is empty
And you go to bed hungry

Saturday, July 23, 2022

it is what it is

daisies to the sun
moths to flame
ants to sugar
you to another

and me?
alone.

Word of the day: Heliotropic
turning or growing toward the light

Friday, July 22, 2022

Approximate

how much time do you think we have
before we tire of each other
will we get bored in a month or two
or is the end just around the corner?

if you had to guess how fondly we'll look back at our time together
on a scale of one to ten, would your estimate be closer to
one (taking a big gulp of milk that is horribly sour, its aftertaste lingering all day) or
ten (licking the spatula clean after making a massive bowl of chocolate pudding)?


Word of the day: Approximate
to estimate



Wednesday, July 6, 2022

What this girl dreams of

Oh to take the train to a villa in Galle and relax by the beach
A pool just calling to you, while someone cooks one delicious meal after another
To take a cab back from Colombo after a night out
Down a cocktail or two before ordering a bottle for the table
Going from pub to pub, ending the night with karaoke
Forget all of that
But just ordering a delicious chocolate cake
Covered in a generous layer of boozy ganache
Taking your pick from an endless spread of seafood and meat and breads and more
A steaming hot pizza delivered to your doorstep, pairing it with a glass of wine

Oh to be happy and free of worry


Word of the day: Ganache
A whipped frosting or filling made with semisweet chocolate and cream,
used for cakes, pastries, and candies

Tuesday, July 5, 2022

life.

My mother tells me that my hair looks nice
"He did a good job trimming it"
My curls have settled well, she says
I smile in response, too ashamed to admit that
My hair gets this way when I don't bathe every other day
And I don't remember the last time I had a bath
Whenever I do decide that today,
I will wash my hair, shave my legs
Put on an outfit that doesn't look like a sack
A tiredness falls over me and I instead have a quick wash
And go back to bed

I share a picture of my cat with a friend and tell her
I can't post it online because I have promised myself I won't until I'm no longer sad
It feels like a threat to my brain:
You either get your shit together or lose the one outlet you have to vent
So far, it hasn't worked. I don't tweet. But I'm still sad
The truth is, I started hating myself, this person I've become
Always so tired and angry and sad and awful
I didn't want to spend another minute with myself
And the thing about hating yourself is that
You can never escape yourself

You don't need to tell me this is selfish, because I am aware
But I desire company just so I can be held
So I can rest my head on a shoulder, hold a hand that doesn't let go
To remind myself that I am still here
Still breathing, still present in this moment
You also don't need to tell me that this will pass, like everything else,
Things will get better, I just need to hold on until then
I am aware. I know.
But that doesn't make it any easier.

Monday, July 4, 2022

Bumbling idiot

I swipe right on someone who has swiped right on me
And the app gives me a 24-hour window to make a move
But how do you start a conversation with a stranger
You have no actual desire to date

Perhaps I should open a bottle of wine
Get sufficiently tipsy
Put on something on Netflix
Forget the app and instead have a nap

Thursday, June 30, 2022

Mirror, mirror, on the wall

Yesterday, I saw a stranger in the mirror
When did I start looking this sad
I started crying, so turned my back to the wall
There's just so much ugliness one can take in a day

Tuesday, June 28, 2022

Dissent


Word of the day: Dissent
Disagreement with the philosophy, methods, goals, etc. of a political party or government

They say the aragalaya is dead or distracted
Far from reaching its goal of sending Gota home
And perhaps Galle Face is no more a Gama
But a sparsely populated desert, tents still erect

But you will still hear a voice screaming into a microphone
Protest chants that fill the air
Mixing with the salt of the ocean and tears of desperation
A struggle exhausted, but unrelenting

And one may criticise the apathy
The lack of participation
The disintegration of dissent
And from them, we must ask if they do not hear

The wails of a woman who watched her husband fall dead to the ground
After standing in line for days hoping for fuel, praying for kerosene
The anguish of a father who holds the lifeless body of his child
Who died because they couldn't get to a hospital in time
(And one wonders if there would have been a point in going to
A hospital with no medicine and no staff and no electricity)

The sighs of exhaustion, beads of sweat
Of men and women, young and old, packed into buses and trains
Praying it doesn't rain, hoping the streets are not in darkness
Knowing the money in their wallet would only get them through a meal at most
(But what does one do with rotting vegetables, weevil-infested rice
When there is no gas to cook a simple curry or two)

And as we are stripped of what little joy, what little hope we had
As we listen to lie after lie, promises of better days to come
If only we can get through the toughest of weeks that never seem to end
They sit in their air-conditioned rooms, fill their stomachs with the finest food
Laugh and joke about the sorry state of affairs in the country they set fire to
Not a thought given to anyone but themselves

Monday, June 27, 2022

Choice

I left the door open, sure,

But it is you who chose to leave

Thursday, June 23, 2022

Best day of her life

Somewhere on the internet there is an album
Pictures from the best day of her life and one day
You will come across it and perhaps by then you would know
Or maybe it'll take you by surprise and you will hate us all
For not telling you about it, for letting this thing happen
You will go through the pictures, hoping to find in his face
A morsel of sadness, reluctance, a need to flee, run while he still could
Instead a smile, laughter, happiness, even
And it will break you in a way you never thought possible
It will feel like the worst pain you've felt in a long time
Her white sari, his grey suit, their poruwa, first dance
A newly married couple on the best day of their life
Almost mocking you from the screen

Monday, June 13, 2022

love.

Word of the day: inamorata
a woman who loves or is loved; female sweetheart or lover

Sometimes I fantasize about being a woman who loves and is loved
Coming home to kindness and warmth, a cup of tea waiting on the kitchen counter
Chicken in the oven, pasta boiling in a pot
Outside, the setting sun turns everything golden, ethereal
The bills are paid, the groceries done, the bed made and the wine chilled
A quiet existence, where voices aren't raised, fists aren't tightened
A love that is selfish, where the give and take isn't 50-50
Where one act doesn't have to be countered with an act of similar effort
Where you love in the way you know how to, and I do the way I know best

Wednesday, June 8, 2022

turn back time

would there even be an us
-as brief as it was-
if i hadn't been drunk that one night
and made the first move?
would we have had those handful of good days
now tainted by the faintest shade of grief
if i had been sober and you
still unsure?

let's get straight to it

Word of the day: hokum
out-and-out nonsense; bunkum

You say something about someone that I struggle to follow
Because all I can think about are your lips and how they feel when we kiss
We laugh at the end of it, and I have to stop myself from walking over to you
Instead I counter your story with something else about someone else

None of this matters, really, we are just trying to sound interesting or smart
Or funny or whatever else, even though none of it will play a part in how this night ends
Because we both know that soon
We will tire of the irrelevant, the stalling, and close this space between us

Sunday, June 5, 2022

nocturnal

Word of the day: caterwaul
to utter a long, wailing cry; howl or screech

We are strangers to the sun, to daylight
They don't know what our faces look like
Almost like vampires, we only meet
When the moon is out, and stars light up the sky
In the early hours of the morning,
When cats wail and rats scurry across floors
We share stories from years ago
And laugh about the joke our lives have become
Somewhere between emptying glasses and bottles
And the tiredness that slowly creeps in
We find something for ourselves
That only the nighttime seems to bring

Saturday, June 4, 2022

Maybe someday

we will look back at these days
with so much fondness, as if the bad, the ugly
never happened
you'll be married then, content,
and I will find so much joy in seeing you
doting over someone, even though that someone isn't me
and we will talk about our past with those who weren't
part of it without giving even a hint that
there was anything else between us
except friendship that made it through the years
and we will laugh at the silly things we did
the grand plans we had of conquering the world
the cheap wine we drank, songs we sang along to
and at the end of the night, as we say our goodbyes
we would hesitate
and linger for a second too long
and wonder what it would be like
if this home, this life, was ours

Thursday, June 2, 2022

cows and pigs

Word of the day: Piebald
having patches of black and white or of other colours; parti-coloured

Somewhere a cow grazes a field
and a child asks his mother
why the sky is blue and birds can fly
but why not pigs and why not us
and the mother tells him to hurry along now
stop looking at the cow and asking questions
about why it is black and white
and not brown like the others
they had just walked past
and the child hurries along
walking around a puddle in the middle of the road
and not jumping right into it like he would have
if only he had been alone
and the mother lets out a sigh relief
because she now doesn't have to
wash mud-stained clothes when they
get home and can instead
put the groceries away and get started on dinner

Tuesday, May 31, 2022

It doesn't matter how long it's been

Word of the day: sinsyne
from that time; since then.


It doesn't matter now
It's been so long
You say
More to convince yourself
Than me
I've moved on

But it's never easy, is it?
When the one you once loved
Finds love elsewhere
And you are left stranded
Bobbing about in an
Inflatable boat
That almost looks comical
Until it starts deflating
The way your lungs lost air
The day he said
There was someone else

Friday, May 27, 2022

Drink up

We've reached the age where kissing strangers
Leaves no residue in our minds and hearts anymore
When he reaches for my hand, I know
This gesture will never again be repeated
He doesn't promise to call, I don't expect him to
We don't even save the other's number
This is the age of moments that disintegrate
As soon as we move on to the next
I run my hand through his hair, kiss his lips
And he unbuttons my shirt
But the sighs we each let out, the quiet consent
Is only for this one encounter

Tomorrow, he will find someone else
And this memory will be crushed
Beneath the weight of my hangover

Monday, May 23, 2022

Just one favour

Word of the day: Victorine
A fur scarf with long tabs at the ends.


Pick the best scarf from your collection
Make it fur, if possible, for it will feel softer
Wrap it around my neck and gently but firmly
Tighten it until I can no longer breathe

Give me this one thing, I beg you

Tuesday, May 17, 2022

Scale of one to ten

Word of the day: Cherubic
of or having the nature of a cherub, or an angel represented as a rosy-cheeked child with wings; angelic


Today,
I feel ugly

And before you say
One's self-worth is not
Determined by how
They are perceived or treated
By others
Know that, on any other day,
I would agree
Whole-heartedly

But today,
Just this one day
I can't help but look at everyone else
Their cherubic faces mocking me
And feel like a minus
On a scale of one to ten

Today,
I don't need to hear the truth
Sugar coated
I don't need to be told that
Things will get better
If only I could bide my time
They've all been wrong people
So far
The right one will come along
Any minute now

Today,
I don't need to be comforted
Or even pitied

Today, I need you to let me be sad
And angry and annoyed and
Irritated
I need you to let me be

Saturday, May 14, 2022

Drafts

In my drafts, there sits a poem, for us
Incomplete, like us
Sometimes, I read it, consider writing the rest
Wonder if enough time has passed
For it to be just a poem
Devoid of any connection to you

But years could pass and those words
Would always always always
Remind me of the one night
That was ours

Bilious

Word of the day: Bilious
Extremely unpleasant or distasteful


You once asked me why I was so cranky and I didn't really know what to say
Because this is how I've always been and I can't really help it if the
Universe is just never on my side, now can I?
But a character in a show I watched a few days ago spoke about how
The anger within her could someday distance everyone from her
Leaving her alone, a gorilla in a cage with no one to take care of her
And I would be lying if I said that scene didn't bother me in the least because
Truth be told, I hate how angry and cranky and irritable and unpleasant I can be
It makes me so tired, by the end of the day, to carry all of that in me
Like bile, sloshing around my insides, burning everything it comes into contact with
It feels like I always have my guard up, sword drawn, ready to defend myself
Even when no one's around me, even when I can relax, take a deep breath

And maybe that's why you left, why no one ever seems to stay

Tuesday, May 3, 2022

Saturnian

Word of the day: Saturnian
prosperous, happy, or peaceful

the consequences no longer matter
we can't afford to think about what follows
we will do as we please
run naked across fields if we have to
drink way too much, hangover be damned
open our hearts, talk about our deepest fears
love and be loved
grab on to those fleeting feelings of joy
and make the world ours

we will turn the present into
one we can look back at fondly
when years have passed and our hair is grey
skin wrinkled, sight weakened
we will complain about backpain and
tiredness
all the pills our doctors have prescribed
down a shot of arrack
-still the best medicine-
and look back at these saturnian days

Friday, April 29, 2022

Roles reversed

Would it have been as easy if I had been the dumper
And you, the dumpee?
Would you have quietly accepted the end for what it was
And left without protest?

Tuesday, April 26, 2022

fragments

(Word of the day: disjecta membra
scattered members; disjointed portions or parts: applied to fragments of poetry or fragmentary quotations)


they come to me in fragments
words strung together
slowly traced back to you

we'll play it by ear
and see how it goes

i remember very little now
from those times
how many years have passed
since?

they don't need to know
this is between us

the space you occupy in my heart
has shrunk
it was bound to happen

crows mate for life
you know

i thought my heart would be
exorcised by now
there have been others since
so easily forgotten

no feelings
nothing that makes this difficult

but still, you are here
so stubborn
always so stubborn

did you fall
in love with me?

like the smell of cigarettes
that clings to everything
like wine that stains lips

i told you not to

Wednesday, March 23, 2022

Nubilous (Word of the day)

I stand in the aisle with the spices on one side and the pasta and noodles
On the other and I turn around once and then again
And look at the list that is in my left hand along with my
Wallet and phone that then beeps and it's about what
A protest march, another death in a queue, gas shortages
I don't even know anymore if anything more could go wrong in this
Country that they've burnt to the ground with their corrupt
Incompetent don't-give-a-fuck leadership such a joke
But wait why am I in this aisle with the spices, do I need spices
I don't think so
A trolley first and a person follows, turning into this same aisle
He stops near the sauces, ah yes, I needed a can of mushroom
Canned food is safe, you can keep them for much longer
The canned food is in front of the sauces, mostly a luxury now
We mostly buy essentials, even though we can afford a few luxuries
There is so much guilt when so many can't eat or feed their families
When we are looking at an uncertain future where we may have nothing
To eat ourselves
Just money printed, valueless, the soil on land inherited
My mother walks up to me, complains about the price of fish
A kilo of something or the other
Almost what therapy cost two years ago
I need to go back, have the slime and fog and dust and cobwebs
In my head cleaned and removed
But for now, we walk away with our can of mushrooms
Some vegetables and a loaf of bread
She asks me about dinner and I shrug because talking
Is more than I can manage right now

Tuesday, March 22, 2022

souvenir

I keep things, this is why my room is a mess
Train tickets I bought to get to work
Pieces of paper on which grocery lists are written
Receipts from restaurants, movie tickets
Cards from friends and family
Coins from countries once visited
Envelopes with birthday wishes scrawled on them
Bo leaves, once green, now brown
Stones and seashells
I keep things, they clutter every surface in my room

And in boxes are all the things my grandmother made for me
Little crochet hearts and bags and pigs and squares
Orange, red, blue, purple, pink and green
Every chain so carefully stitched
I kept them all because these are things she left me
But today, I threw one away that had a stain on it
Burnt it before I could change my mind
A month ago, perhaps, I would have kept it
But today, out it went with a bag full of
Receipts and cards and pieces of paper and train tickets

Years ago, I threw away that one gift you gave me
I kept it with me, long after it stopped being of any use
But one day, when I was cleaning my room
I put it in with some other things in a garbage bag
It meant nothing to me, it has been so long since we last spoke

Recently, I was sorting through a box full of notebooks
Collected over the years, one of the perks of the job
They were taking up space and one has to be stingy with space
And love and happiness and other things
I flipped through the books in case there was something of value
And found myself looking for things I remember you writing
Doodles and words
All I could find was my own writing, barely legible, large, ugly, messy
I remember your writing being neat and small
But perhaps I'm wrong about this
I'm wrong about a lot of things these days
But in the trash those book too, went

And now, I feel like I'm one step closer to fully cleansing myself of you
There are journals I kept during those times
And truth be told, you make an appearance or two
But I can't seem to part with them
They remind me of times, not necessarily better
But definitely different
Strange because journals from more recent times
Notes taken down during therapy
They've all been thrown away

Funny, isn't it, how much distance there is between us
And yet how tied this memory of you is to me

Friday, February 25, 2022

Seven years (Coronach)

Word of the day: Coronach


In four days time it'll be seven long years since you passed
Waking me up at a quarter to midnight on the last Sunday of the month
To tell me you couldn't breathe and it didn't take long for you to take your final breath
And then that was it, you were dead

This is selfish, I know, but what I hated the most about your death
Besides your sudden absence from my life after having you by my side
Since the day I was born
Was the way everyone expected me to be strong

I'd just lost you and it felt like my world was collapsing around me
And people told me that I would get through it because
I'd had that final day with you, unlike grandkids who, by choice,
Had moved to countries that were oceans away from you

And I looked at that wooden casket you were in, closed, so I never had to see
What you looked like when you were no longer alive
And later, you were smoke and ashes, dust
Surrounded by people, I watched you go, never having felt so alone in my life

And now, seven long years later, I still want you here
Talk to the photograph we have of you in the living room
I tell you things and sometimes, let myself cry
Whisper that I wish I could join you in the afterlife

Wednesday, February 23, 2022

Red, white and rose

Word of the day: Oenology


Reds fill my stomach too quickly

Sitting there, heavy

Staining glass and lips

Weighing my heart down

I focus on my breath

Inhale and exhale

Force myself to remain in the present


Whites are the perfect buzz

Clean going down my throat

Everything looks so surreal

Like I'm surrounded by

Fairy lights and fireflies

In those moments the world

Is just so fucking beautiful


A rare treat, a rose is

Bubbles bursting against my tongue

A little dance of joy

Merriment, good things

Being transported to a different life

For a short while

Sitting on a beach

Sharing a bottle with

Someone I love

freak

skin on skin

naked

no longer reminding me of

raw fish

repulsive

an improvement

perhaps

my brain has surrendered

to the endless questions from

friends and first dates

never been in a relationship

body count, zero?

how and why?

i let you touch me

and pretend it feels good because

the panic that used to set in with

intimacy

has now been replaced by

indifference

but you don't need to know that

just give me what i need

so people will stop looking at me

like i'm a freak

Tuesday, February 22, 2022

keloid

never the smartest

when it came to the sciences

i only recently learnt about keloids


"so basically your brain keeps signaling that

scar tissue needs to be made long after

the wound has healed"


the layers that keep forming around my heart

ever since you threw it on the ground

stomped on it like it was a rubber toy


layers of tissue, skin, whatever it is

protecting me from the hurt that can so

easily be caused


what are they called?

Wednesday, February 16, 2022

single pringle

it hit me, when i least expected it,
that it was the oldest -my grandmother-
and the youngest -myself-
who were without partners
she lost her husband years ago
and perhaps thought of him often with a fondness
that didn't surface until after he had passed

everyone else - dating, about to be married
just married, married for a while -
and beyond our little group
most seemed to have found someone
the woman carrying a baby, waiting for her husband
to return from a shop with a toy
the young man reaching for the young girl's hand
blushing slightly
the elderly couple, seated on a bench
resting before the day's activities resume
the man telling his wife to hurry
before the train leaves

everyone had met someone they had
fallen in love with, found a sense of
compatibility with, had a child with
everyone had met someone they had shaped their lives around
accommodating new needs and displays of affection

and there i was
alone

and it hit me that i had never had this
despite being at the very end of
marriageable age
i had never had someone to love and care for
worry about, say a silent prayer for
even though i didn't even believe in the power of it
i had never known what someone's favourite dish was and
learned to perfect it
or instantly know what to get them for a birthday
to seek their warmth when i wake up in the middle of the night

the life i had trudged through
had given me joy and happiness
good memories
and bad
regrets and tears and grief
so many different types of love
but it had never given me this one thing
everyone else seemed to get
sometimes multiple times
in a lifetime

Wednesday, February 9, 2022

So unfair

You get to fix yourself
And I don't

But then again,
You never thought I needed fixing

Because the heaviness in my voice
Escaped your ears

The tears I fought back
Went unnoticed

When I could barely get a word out
You filled the silence with nonsense

"You're okay"
"You're okay"
"You're okay"
You kept saying

Even when I screamed
"I'm not"
"I'm not"
"I'm not"

Sunday, January 30, 2022

Dirty thoughts

the first time you reached across the table
to hold my hand, i noticed your fingers
and wondered how good they would feel in me
while we sipped coffee and laughed about life
these were the thoughts that ran through
my mind

but when we eventually progressed from coffee shop
to room with a bed, closed doors
you clumsily fumbled your way around my body
while i had to grab on to the faintest sensations
to feel some satisfaction

if this is what it was going to be like, i thought
i'd rather it just be me, myself and i

Monday, January 17, 2022

Nothing to offer

I used to think I was no good for you
I had nothing to offer, not really
A body I hated seeing in the mirror
A belly too big, thighs too fat, a face too ordinary
Anxiety that made it impossible to leave the house sometimes
Or breathe with ease
Depression that left me exhausted
I needed to go for therapy
But instead I remained a burden on my friends
When I drank too much and couldn't stop my thoughts
From spiraling out of control and throwing me
Against one wall and another
I feared commitment, demanded affection
Wanted more than I could ever give
And so I thought I was no good for you
You were too good for me

But now, I take it all back
You only seemed too good for me
In pictures where filters hid your flaws
Carefully worded sentences that made you sound smart
Stories you spun so that you were the hero
Made yourself a cape out of made up trauma
But behind closed doors
Naked to me, you had nothing to offer
You were just another guy
So fucking ordinary
Couldn't pick you in a police lineup
Wouldn't notice you in a crowd

sprats

someday we will meet and you will tell me about your life
and i will tell you about mine
and you will ask me why i never settled down
with someone
and i will tell you about my fear of commitment
bad luck with men
we will laugh about it

you will tell me there are plenty of fish in the sea
i just needed to keep looking
i will make some joke about
looking for salmon
but only getting sprats

but i will never tell you that
i could swim to the deepest seas
or climb the highest mountains
but never find the man i'm looking for
because there he is,
sitting across from me
telling me about his life
asking me why i never settled down

Sunday, January 16, 2022

Anger

And it is anger you feel
In the end
Anger at yourself for the
Time wasted
Lies believed

The way you accommodated their bullshit
Smiled through hurtful words
Because surely it wasn't intentional?

You scold yourself for being so stupid
For not seeing them for who they really are
Pretending this was something you are
Okay with

Friday, January 14, 2022

After everything has been said and done

After everything has been said and done
And your hurt turns into anger
And then tears and then a broken plate
On the floor from when you threw it
At the wall, screaming his name

After everything has been said and done
And the cut on your wrist heals
And the scar fades and you don't even remember
Why he left or that it
Even happened

After everything has been said and done
And he marries someone else
And they have three kids
Two boys and a girl
Like he always wanted, like you never did

After everything has been said and done
And his name and face never cross your mind
As memory is replaced by others
Who leave their own scars and broken plates
And let hurt turn into anger and then tears

After everything has been said and done
A dull ache in your heart remains
It sometimes travels to your throat and strangles words
Or moves down to your legs, making you trip and stumble
As you find your way in this world
Moving in and out of other people's lives
But never his

Wednesday, January 12, 2022

Premonition

I knew it was over between us
When you pulled away from that kiss
Way before it had to end 

Saturday, January 8, 2022

You win, I don't care

This is not a game
But I think I'll let you have this
When you told me you were leaving
I had already packed my bags
Empty now, that shared space
No guilt or hurt
Regret or hope

I picture a stranger
Walking through that space
Finding signs of life
An unwashed mug in the sink
Leftovers in the fridge
The bed isn't made
The bathroom light is on
But my stuff is gone
So is yours

The stranger will always wonder
If we left together

But if not,
Who left first

Confession

Talking about you
So openly
Saying you are
The one person I still want to talk to
Felt almost like a confession

I'd like to know how you are
Whether you are happy
And if you ever wish you did things
A little differently back then

What would we talk about
If it was you I was having drinks with
And not her
Would we choke on silence
Or order another round?